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dodo69

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This comment from Aficionado brought back some memories that I wanted to share.

https://punterhub.co.nz/threads/newbie-to-nz-and-auckland-looking-for-basic-advice.1939/post-26882

There were 3 people in my life, older gentlemen around my parents' age, they're all in their 60s and 70s now. They're all successful businessmen, married with kids. I heard these stories when I was younger, but I didn't put two and two together until recently, when I started punting. Even though they don't know each other at all, the situations were surprisingly similar: Guy goes to see hookers. Guy gets hooked by a special girl. Girl gives a sob story about her upbringing. Girl needs money to make a better life & leave the industry, whether it's for school or to start a small business, or she's sick with cancer and needs money to see a doctor. Guy falls for it and starts dumping cash. Guy says he'll leave his wife and kids to marry the girl. Family members find out, guy gets mad & threatens to divorce. Guy tells girl he'll marry her after the divorce is finalized (1 of the 3 actually went through with it and divorced his wife). One thing's for sure: none of them had a happy ending. Endless scrutiny from friends and family, their kids hate them, reputations tainted, a lot of money lost. And the sad part is the girls always left after getting their bag 💰. These guys are not dumb btw. They're well-educated, outgoing, leader-type shit, not the typical introverted nerds who can easily be fooled, and yet they got fooled. I always think of them when I develop stronger-than-expected chemistry with the WGs I see. It keeps me grounded. These 3 stories are so cliché, straight out of a Hong Kong drama, that I was very surprised when I found out it happened to people I know. Hopefully this will reach someone who is about to fall in love with a hoe 😂
 
I somewhat filter for this as i only fall in love with hookers who give me a ridiculous amount of free extras

Ie a 120 min session full of DFK, sumata, tip poking, DATY for multiple O’s, near miss on the DATO (only a miss as we don’t want to fall head over heels here), NBJ + MB, post coital cuddling , followed by bump starting my automobiles flat battery after the booking, all for the base $120 1hr massage rate!!

+I only fall in love with cool girls who have a good aura, positive attitude, good vibes (think cicilea the pro rimmer)

Once those whores start giving sob stories, acting shady, and hell asking for more money, my spidey senses start ringing,

Next thing I’ll be doing a sick burnout while they are nothing but a fading spec in the rear view mirror as I race off, dick still wet!!

Falling in love with these whores can be half the fun. But wake up from the dream boys, at the end of the booking you need to hand the controls back to the big head.
 
dodo69 said:
This comment from Aficionado brought back some memories that I wanted to share.

https://punterhub.co.nz/threads/newbie-to-nz-and-auckland-looking-for-basic-advice.1939/post-26882

There were 3 people in my life, older gentlemen around my parents' age, they're all in their 60s and 70s now. They're all successful businessmen, married with kids. I heard these stories when I was younger, but I didn't put two and two together until recently, when I started punting. Even though they don't know each other at all, the situations were surprisingly similar: Guy goes to see hookers. Guy gets hooked by a special girl. Girl gives a sob story about her upbringing. Girl needs money to make a better life & leave the industry, whether it's for school or to start a small business, or she's sick with cancer and needs money to see a doctor. Guy falls for it and starts dumping cash. Guy says he'll leave his wife and kids to marry the girl. Family members find out, guy gets mad & threatens to divorce. Guy tells girl he'll marry her after the divorce is finalized (1 of the 3 actually went through with it and divorced his wife). One thing's for sure: none of them had a happy ending. Endless scrutiny from friends and family, their kids hate them, reputations tainted, a lot of money lost. And the sad part is the girls always left after getting their bag 💰. These guys are not dumb btw. They're well-educated, outgoing, leader-type shit, not the typical introverted nerds who can easily be fooled, and yet they got fooled. I always think of them when I develop stronger-than-expected chemistry with the WGs I see. It keeps me grounded. These 3 stories are so cliché, straight out of a Hong Kong drama, that I was very surprised when I found out it happened to people I know. Hopefully this will reach someone who is about to fall in love with a hoe 😂
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A tale as old as time.

Beauty and the Beast.
 
I had two completely different relationships with sm girls. One was with someone like Taylor Swift, been emotional involved for less than a year, didn't fuck her, the end was bit fucking drama. Another one was short busty Asian milf for 5+ years, creampie missions completed many times, right now she have been away for more than 2 months to be with her family (her hubby's turn to fuck her even she told me before she didn't let him fucked her raw), the first month of her away was incredible hard for me, it's like 5+ years of addiction suddenly turned cold turkey, luckily she sent me her photos then I used AI to do the dirty tricks, there were once I have been jerking off to her 3 times within 24hrs to help my cold turkey. The bottom line is don't be afraid to get as much involvement as possible. It's like emotional drugs, enjoy the high and low because life is too short to be ordinary and boring safe.
 
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Mkz said:
The bottom line is don't be afraid to get as much involvement as possible. It's like emotional drugs, enjoy the high and low because life is too short to be ordinary and boring safe.
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Fair comparison but interesting suggestion. Usually people don’t recommend others to do drugs but to each their own 😂. I do see the resemblance though, the more you are emotionally invested, the better the sex felt. But like drugs, overusing might lose you your house & family. At the end of the day, if you can keep these “relationship” casual and fuck often, it’d be the best of both worlds. For me personally, I actively try to avoid catching the feel and squash it as soon as it is starting to become a problem.
 
dodo69 said:
Fair comparison but interesting suggestion. Usually people don’t recommend others to do drugs but to each their own 😂. I do see the resemblance though, the more you are emotionally invested, the better the sex felt. But like drugs, overusing might lose you your house & family. At the end of the day, if you can keep these “relationship” casual and fuck often, it’d be the best of both worlds. For me personally, I actively try to avoid catching the feel and squash it as soon as it is starting to become a problem.
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There are other ways to lose your house and family beside drugs and sex addictions. I usually try to spend as little as possible like a cheap asshole. For example, that small busty Asian milf, I used to pay 130 for 30mins of creampie session. In recent years, I started paying 200 per 1hr session for raw fuck (less creampie after she took away contraceptive coil, so I paid +50 for creampie if occurred). I learn my mistake from the relationship with "Taylor Swift", enjoy to be cuck is definitely help, so does the completion of creampie mission. So if you could enjoy to be cuck then you shouldn't have problems to catch feelings.
 
dodo69 said:
This comment from Aficionado brought back some memories that I wanted to share.

https://punterhub.co.nz/threads/newbie-to-nz-and-auckland-looking-for-basic-advice.1939/post-26882

There were 3 people in my life, older gentlemen around my parents' age, they're all in their 60s and 70s now. They're all successful businessmen, married with kids. I heard these stories when I was younger, but I didn't put two and two together until recently, when I started punting. Even though they don't know each other at all, the situations were surprisingly similar: Guy goes to see hookers. Guy gets hooked by a special girl. Girl gives a sob story about her upbringing. Girl needs money to make a better life & leave the industry, whether it's for school or to start a small business, or she's sick with cancer and needs money to see a doctor. Guy falls for it and starts dumping cash. Guy says he'll leave his wife and kids to marry the girl. Family members find out, guy gets mad & threatens to divorce. Guy tells girl he'll marry her after the divorce is finalized (1 of the 3 actually went through with it and divorced his wife). One thing's for sure: none of them had a happy ending. Endless scrutiny from friends and family, their kids hate them, reputations tainted, a lot of money lost. And the sad part is the girls always left after getting their bag 💰. These guys are not dumb btw. They're well-educated, outgoing, leader-type shit, not the typical introverted nerds who can easily be fooled, and yet they got fooled. I always think of them when I develop stronger-than-expected chemistry with the WGs I see. It keeps me grounded. These 3 stories are so cliché, straight out of a Hong Kong drama, that I was very surprised when I found out it happened to people I know. Hopefully this will reach someone who is about to fall in love with a hoe 😂
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Modern day Cleopatra
 
dodo69 said:
This comment from Aficionado brought back some memories that I wanted to share.

https://punterhub.co.nz/threads/newbie-to-nz-and-auckland-looking-for-basic-advice.1939/post-26882

There were 3 people in my life, older gentlemen around my parents' age, they're all in their 60s and 70s now. They're all successful businessmen, married with kids. I heard these stories when I was younger, but I didn't put two and two together until recently, when I started punting. Even though they don't know each other at all, the situations were surprisingly similar: Guy goes to see hookers. Guy gets hooked by a special girl. Girl gives a sob story about her upbringing. Girl needs money to make a better life & leave the industry, whether it's for school or to start a small business, or she's sick with cancer and needs money to see a doctor. Guy falls for it and starts dumping cash. Guy says he'll leave his wife and kids to marry the girl. Family members find out, guy gets mad & threatens to divorce. Guy tells girl he'll marry her after the divorce is finalized (1 of the 3 actually went through with it and divorced his wife). One thing's for sure: none of them had a happy ending. Endless scrutiny from friends and family, their kids hate them, reputations tainted, a lot of money lost. And the sad part is the girls always left after getting their bag 💰. These guys are not dumb btw. They're well-educated, outgoing, leader-type shit, not the typical introverted nerds who can easily be fooled, and yet they got fooled. I always think of them when I develop stronger-than-expected chemistry with the WGs I see. It keeps me grounded. These 3 stories are so cliché, straight out of a Hong Kong drama, that I was very surprised when I found out it happened to people I know. Hopefully this will reach someone who is about to fall in love with a hoe 😂
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At my age, I could spend hours telling you stories along these lines—and a few are still unfolding. What strikes me is how little intelligence, wealth or professional success can protect someone when their emotional vulnerabilities come into play. Even a man who appears happily married can be susceptible to attention that touches something he hasn’t quite understood in himself.

Perhaps success brings its own blind spot: after a lifetime of trusting your judgement and being rewarded for it, admitting that you’ve misread someone can be painfully difficult. And clever men can be exceptionally good at rationalising their own poor decisions. They recognise the familiar story when it happens to someone else, then convince themselves that theirs is the exception.

dodo69 said:
I never thought I'd become a punter, but here I am. I suppose anything is possible.
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Keep these stories firmly in mind, mate. I’d hate to see you reach your fifties or sixties and find yourself walking the same path. The fact that you never expected to be here is a good reason to stay mindful of how gradually your boundaries can shift. Decide now what you’re unwilling to risk, while your judgement is clear. It’s far easier to set those limits before your feelings give you reasons to bend them.



Footnote:
Years ago, there was a girl named Judy who was one of the most sought-after WGs in Johor Bahru. Whenever I was posted to Singapore or KL, I’d book her for two or three nights. Over time, a few mates in my circle started seeing her too.

Two years later, one of those mates dropped a surprise into our group chat: he and Judy were in a relationship. He eventually divorced his wife, who was a surgeon, and married Judy. We all flew to KL for the wedding, and they now have three kids together. Couple years ago, I saw Judy n my mate on the news as the company prepared for its IPO. :LOL:

You can imagine the atmosphere whenever us boys get together with him at the bar. With that much shared history, it only takes a knowing look to set everyone off—the inside jokes never seem to get old! 😂

cheers GIF
 
Blacknight1 said:
At my age, I could spend hours telling you stories along these lines—and a few are still unfolding. What strikes me is how little intelligence, wealth or professional success can protect someone when their emotional vulnerabilities come into play. Even a man who appears happily married can be susceptible to attention that touches something he hasn’t quite understood in himself.

Perhaps success brings its own blind spot: after a lifetime of trusting your judgement and being rewarded for it, admitting that you’ve misread someone can be painfully difficult. And clever men can be exceptionally good at rationalising their own poor decisions. They recognise the familiar story when it happens to someone else, then convince themselves that theirs is the exception.



Keep these stories firmly in mind, mate. I’d hate to see you reach your fifties or sixties and find yourself walking the same path. The fact that you never expected to be here is a good reason to stay mindful of how gradually your boundaries can shift. Decide now what you’re unwilling to risk, while your judgement is clear. It’s far easier to set those limits before your feelings give you reasons to bend them.



Footnote:
Years ago, there was a girl named Judy who was one of the most sought-after WGs in Johor Bahru. Whenever I was posted to Singapore or KL, I’d book her for two or three nights. Over time, a few mates in my circle started seeing her too.

Two years later, one of those mates dropped a surprise into our group chat: he and Judy were in a relationship. He eventually divorced his wife, who was a surgeon, and married Judy. We all flew to KL for the wedding, and they now have three kids together. Couple years ago, I saw Judy n my mate on the news as the company prepared for its IPO. :LOL:

You can imagine the atmosphere whenever us boys get together with him at the bar. With that much shared history, it only takes a knowing look to set everyone off—the inside jokes never seem to get old! 😂

cheers GIF
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That sounds like what will happen between Athena and Terry.
 
Blacknight1 said:
At my age, I could spend hours telling you stories along these lines—and a few are still unfolding. What strikes me is how little intelligence, wealth or professional success can protect someone when their emotional vulnerabilities come into play. Even a man who appears happily married can be susceptible to attention that touches something he hasn’t quite understood in himself.

Perhaps success brings its own blind spot: after a lifetime of trusting your judgement and being rewarded for it, admitting that you’ve misread someone can be painfully difficult. And clever men can be exceptionally good at rationalising their own poor decisions. They recognise the familiar story when it happens to someone else, then convince themselves that theirs is the exception.



Keep these stories firmly in mind, mate. I’d hate to see you reach your fifties or sixties and find yourself walking the same path. The fact that you never expected to be here is a good reason to stay mindful of how gradually your boundaries can shift. Decide now what you’re unwilling to risk, while your judgement is clear. It’s far easier to set those limits before your feelings give you reasons to bend them.



Footnote:
Years ago, there was a girl named Judy who was one of the most sought-after WGs in Johor Bahru. Whenever I was posted to Singapore or KL, I’d book her for two or three nights. Over time, a few mates in my circle started seeing her too.

Two years later, one of those mates dropped a surprise into our group chat: he and Judy were in a relationship. He eventually divorced his wife, who was a surgeon, and married Judy. We all flew to KL for the wedding, and they now have three kids together. Couple years ago, I saw Judy n my mate on the news as the company prepared for its IPO. :LOL:

You can imagine the atmosphere whenever us boys get together with him at the bar. With that much shared history, it only takes a knowing look to set everyone off—the inside jokes never seem to get old! 😂

cheers GIF
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That’s a crazy story.
Judy must have been some sort of sexpot.
Old mate knows that all of his mates have fucked her?

Did you ever do crazy stuff with her like anal, rimming, raw, etc?
 
OlMac said:
That’s a crazy story.
Judy must have been some sort of sexpot.
Old mate knows that all of his mates have fucked her?

Did you ever do crazy stuff with her like anal, rimming, raw, etc?
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We all 'did her'.
The running joke among the boys is always which of his kids ( especially the eldest who is a boy ) bears a suspicious resemblance to whom: “Mate, are you sure your eldest doesn’t look a bit like Caleb?”
:ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:
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OlMac said:
That’s a crazy story.
Judy must have been some sort of sexpot.
Old mate knows that all of his mates have fucked her?

Did you ever do crazy stuff with her like anal, rimming, raw, etc?
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Another little side story:

When he broke the “news” in our group chat, it went silent for hours—because a separate chat had sprung up almost immediately without him.
“What the fuck is going on?”
“Is he alright?”
“He’s serious, isn’t he?”

It took us a while to agree on an appropriate response. So if he thought we were taking our time to choose our words carefully… well, technically, we were. :ROFLMAO:

Imagine how i felt when I pay him a visit during CNY at his home seeing her & the kids......
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It’s a little different, but sometimes mates have plowed each others wives, I suppose it isn’t too uncommon.

In my group of mates there was a gal who had been nailed by a couple of the boys while single and then another one of us ended up dating her. Then marrying her and having kids etc as the years went on. And we are all still mates.

No judgement from me but when I was a young proud cunt, I could never date a girl my mate has rooted.
 
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