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limnimirc

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So I was with a Chinese escort from an establishment, I won't say her name but during the post-act talk i gave her my number, she seemed really keen on me but my people reading skills are garbage so Idk. She kept talking about "you are my new boyfriend" and she originally wanted my Instagram account but I'd already given her a fake name and I'd like this part of my life to remain anonymous. She was great but I'm not planning on seeing her again because of the language barrier, and I figured the number would be harmless as she's leaving the country in a couple weeks anyway.

But did i fuck up here?
 
Sometimes they just do it because they are hoping to retain you as a regular, and maybe in case they leave the agency. You should be fine, but most of us veteran punters have second numbers for and situations like this and never book off our real numbers. Might be something to consider in the future
 
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JohnnyPunter said:
Sometimes they just do it because they are hoping to retrain you as a regular, and maybe in case they leave the agency. You should be fine, but most of us veteran punters have second numbers for punter and situations like this and never book off our real numbers. Might be something to consider in the future
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i will consider it cheers
 
If your not planning on seeing her again there's no point in giving your number

Offer number or some other form of communication to girls want to see again . For a few reasons
1, when they move on let you know where they are now
2. Left the industry and need some cash happy to oblige long as the timing works.
3. Live in places don't often visit or overseas can check directly if available before hand usually they will make themselves available
 
GonaRear said:
If your not planning on seeing her again there's no point in giving your number

Offer number or some other form of communication to girls want to see again . For a few reasons
1, when they move on let you know where they are now
2. Left the industry and need some cash happy to oblige long as the timing works.
3. Live in places don't often visit or overseas can check directly if available before hand usually they will make themselves available
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Exactly. And on the rare occasion they send you a goodbye text while heading to the airport so you can scramble to get there to say your final goodbye in Auckland airport toilet 😜
 
Having a second number for this shit is really important. Especially if like me you want to keep this part of your life seperate from everything else.

I have a second SIM in my phone and I just turn it on and off as I need it. So in situations like these I can give my number and not need to worry. Last thing I want is to be driving around with someone in my car and android auto flashes up with a WG telling me to come get a blowey.

Also, giving your number is up to you. Second Sim reduces some of the risk. I have had the odd WG that I have been seeing regular trade numbers/WeChat and you can organise to do stuff outside of the agency, and services they might not be comfortable offering with their agency.
 
jwoo said:
Exactly. And on the rare occasion they send you a goodbye text while heading to the airport so you can scramble to get there to say your final goodbye in Auckland airport toilet 😜
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sounds like a dirty Korean Drama that I’d like to watch 🤤
 
dodo69 said:
sounds like a dirty Korean Drama that I’d like to watch 🤤
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If deluded naive person who was still figuring shit out is what you mean, sure :ROFLMAO:

Squidward said:
Having a second number for this shit is really important. Especially if like me you want to keep this part of your life seperate from everything else.

I have a second SIM in my phone and I just turn it on and off as I need it. So in situations like these I can give my number and not need to worry. Last thing I want is to be driving around with someone in my car and android auto flashes up with a WG telling me to come get a blowey.

Also, giving your number is up to you. Second Sim reduces some of the risk. I have had the odd WG that I have been seeing regular trade numbers/WeChat and you can organise to do stuff outside of the agency, and services they might not be comfortable offering with their agency.
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Totally, make sense. For me, I was young and didn't have anyone to guide me. I'd developed a reputation at an agency, and many of the girls share their personal numbers with me... I'd come to learn most were sharing their actual personal numbers rather than a throwaway working number.

In some ways, that situation made me feel special. I got special treatment and access, and the girls got to make something extra bypassing the agency.
 
You seem like a nice dude without much experiences. Never give out any information relates to your identity. Always use fake identity and give your secondary contact. Especially if you're not going to see her again🤷🏼‍♀️ The worst thing is those girls want you to be their "bf/sd" unless they're willing to give you whatever you want without extra charges/gifts. If she really likes you, try to make another booking and see if you could complete the creampie mission👍🏼

Short answer: no, you're safe for the next round.
 
Mkz said:
You seem like a nice dude without much experiences. Never give out any information relates to your identity. Always use fake identity and give your secondary contact. Especially if you're not going to see her again🤷🏼‍♀️ The worst thing is those girls want you to be their "bf/sd" unless they're willing to give you whatever you want without extra charges/gifts. If she really likes you, try to make another booking and see if you could complete the creampie mission👍🏼

Short answer: no, you're safe for the next round.
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I was trying to be a bit less direct haha. But yes, if the "creampie" mission is a goal for you then this is the way.
 
limnimirc said:
So I was with a Chinese escort from an establishment, I won't say her name but during the post-act talk i gave her my number, she seemed really keen on me but my people reading skills are garbage so Idk. She kept talking about "you are my new boyfriend" and she originally wanted my Instagram account but I'd already given her a fake name and I'd like this part of my life to remain anonymous. She was great but I'm not planning on seeing her again because of the language barrier, and I figured the number would be harmless as she's leaving the country in a couple weeks anyway.

But did i fuck up here?
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All she was doing was marketing herself, if she ever did contact you on your number to try and drum up business she'd likely have no fucking idea who you were (y)
 
Squidward said:
I was trying to be a bit less direct haha. But yes, if the "creampie" mission is a goal for you then this is the way.
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Since she's leaving the country soon. What's the harm to dump some lords into her to give her the memory she deserves😈
 
Giving your number is a case by case scenario. In OPs example I wouldn’t myself very reluctant these days. Maybe if I knew they were retiring and chances are good for the odd booking in the future.

Not all have a work email but it’s my preferred way to contact.
 
Each to their own and it may depend on the scenario.

I'm a prolific punter: 1-2 times every week.

But I'm too lazy to James Bond around with burners, etc.

I use my work phone, which is also the only number I have, so my default personal phone, too.

If they were to call me and get to voicemail, it gives my full real name, place of work, and role.

I show up to all bookings in my branded work car.

90% of my punting is with SL, SC, & TA.

Those agencies are probably fully aware of who I am.

But.... I don't care.

It's never caused me the slightest issue.

And they certainly don't care, either.

Every time I book a new girl, they ask for the name for the booking like I'm a new client.

And I get no favours from them for being regular.

I use a fake name for bookings. Only because the girls do and I feel I should return the favour 🤣
 
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Kind of depends on your situation I guess. A lot of punters are married and in relationships so they need to be descreet. Some working girls and agencies do occasionally initiate contact and message you out of the blue. I've had it happen to me a few times, and to be honest I regularly change numbers so it might have happened more than I'm aware of.

If you have a high profile job or some kind of job in which consorting with escorts could cause you to be fire, you obviously need to be discreet.

I've never had any escorts ask for my number before (that I can remember), but I have had Asian ones ask for my socials. Usually Instagram. I always decline because I genuinely don't even use that shit.
 
JohnnyPunter said:
Kind of depends on your situation I guess. A lot of punters are married and in relationships so they need to be descreet. Some working girls and agencies do occasionally initiate contact and message you out of the blue. I've had it happen to me a few times, and to be honest I regularly change numbers so it might have happened more than I'm aware of.

If you have a high profile job or some kind of job in which consorting with escorts could cause you to be fire, you obviously need to be discreet.

I've never had any escorts ask for my number before (that I can remember), but I have had Asian ones ask for my socials. Usually Instagram. I always decline because I genuinely don't even use that shit.
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I hear ya.

I'd 100% be fired if work knew I was using my work phone, and driving my work car, to see hookers - during work time!

edward snowden story GIF
 
I have the same fake name, occupation, everything lol.

I'm basically Batman. By day, an upstanding citizen spreading good throughout the world. By night I'm ejaculating in/on as many Asian hookers as my body and budget can handle. To be fair, I do alot of punting during the day too, so I work about twice as hard as batman.
 
Also. Since I pretty much only punt Asians that aren't great English speakers, they tend to not bother trying to get to know me anyway so that's great for me.
 
Squidward said:
I have the same fake name, occupation, everything lol.

I'm basically Batman. By day, an upstanding citizen spreading good throughout the world. By night I'm ejaculating in/on as many Asian hookers as my body and budget can handle. To be fair, I do alot of punting during the day too, so I work about twice as hard as batman.
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Love your work Bruce Wayne.
 
Teddy said:
I stopped claiming to be an electrician years ago I was shown too many switchboards and faulty electrical fittings for my advice, I did get a good discount for flicking a circuit breaker back on once when she said the lights have gone out in the massage studio 😂 😂
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Nice... I'm going to try that trick to see if I can do work for discounts :D
 
JohnnyPunter said:
I was "Roger" the electrical engineer last night 🤣
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That would be Roger Allot?

I used to say I'm a locksmith, but got inundated with requests for help to fix shitty locks. So I'd tell them they had to book me.
I have a feeling locksmiths can fuck for free.

Nowadays I say I'm a greedy landlord, to see the reaction. Or sometimes an interior designer, if I'm feeling art-ey, or an unemployed actor. All of which are true, in a way.
I used to say I was Jon or Johnny too, but that wore thin as an Asian G-String
 
Mkz said:
You seem like a nice dude without much experiences. Never give out any information relates to your identity. Always use fake identity and give your secondary contact. Especially if you're not going to see her again🤷🏼‍♀️ The worst thing is those girls want you to be their "bf/sd" unless they're willing to give you whatever you want without extra charges/gifts. If she really likes you, try to make another booking and see if you could complete the creampie mission👍🏼

Short answer: no, you're safe for the next round.
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It's not real GFE unless creampie - You're a "customer" every time she tears the durex wrapper. She will give the same professional service to me , you , and every dude with a bowl full of coins.

Condom usage is how they separate work and real pleasure :)
 
rastag33k said:
It's not real GFE unless creampie - You're a "customer" every time she tears the durex wrapper. She will give the same professional service to me , you , and every dude with a bowl full of coins.

Condom usage is how they separate work and real pleasure :)
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Exactly, that's why I'm much prefer few of my regular sm ladies who I completed my creampie missions with.
 
rastag33k said:
It's not real GFE unless creampie - You're a "customer" every time she tears the durex wrapper. She will give the same professional service to me , you , and every dude with a bowl full of coins.

Condom usage is how they separate work and real pleasure :)
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I've used rubbers for years with GF's, FWB, and even my wife when we didn't want to risk children.
Is BB worth the pleasure of an unplanned pregnancy? I had a child conceived while she was on the Pill, so used a conny for years (apart from a few times) until I had the snip
 
limnimirc said:
So I was with a Chinese escort from an establishment, I won't say her name but during the post-act talk i gave her my number, she seemed really keen on me but my people reading skills are garbage so Idk. She kept talking about "you are my new boyfriend" and she originally wanted my Instagram account but I'd already given her a fake name and I'd like this part of my life to remain anonymous. She was great but I'm not planning on seeing her again because of the language barrier, and I figured the number would be harmless as she's leaving the country in a couple weeks anyway.

But did i fuck up here?
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Well, it's not a bad idea. Don't worry. I have done the same to a couple of escorts, but they never called me back.
First, I would recommend that you use a second number, not your personal number, but a number you only use to communicate with escorts and agencies. Even worse, don't use your work mobile to contact escorts.
What's the logic behind this ? What I see is that the mobile numbers can be searched online. If you have left a review, made a purchase, or left a comment using your mobile number, people can find it using search engines and some techniques. They will find your name, email address, etc.
Another thing is that the problem in trying to communicate with an escort outside her work environment is not necessarily what she can do to you, but her connections. Who knows who her boyfriend, flatmate, friends etc...are ? How about if one of them is a gang member who decides to track you down to harass you and demand some money, for example?
 
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