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A lot less than before. Until mid-last year I was pretty good. I used to visit girls twice a month, even three times a month. My main places were SL, DH, SB and Vamps (formerly known as AA).
Things changed. I am a contractor and businesses have been very careful in hiring contractors and I ended up unemployed for several months.
I ended up getting a job in March and am still there however, with a much lower income.

Therefore, I have reduced my visits to once a month only and most of the time with the cheapest option available (20 or 30 minutes).

The girls have also been mentioning and complaining. Quinn (DH), mentioned to me a while ago that her regulars are no longer coming. Even Mia (SB) mentioned that she has had only a few clients recently.
 
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MysticStar said:
A lot less than before. Until mid-last year I was pretty good. I used to visit girls twice a month, even three times a month. My main places were SL, DH, SB and Vamps (formerly known as AA).
Things changed. I am a contractor and businesses have been very careful in hiring contractors and I ended up unemployed for several months.
I ended up getting a job in March and am still there however, with a much lower income.

Therefore, I have reduced my visits to once a month only and most of the time with the cheapest option available (20 or 30 minutes).

The girls have also been mentioning and complaining. Quinn (DH), mentioned to me a while ago that her regulars are no longer coming. Even Mia (SB) mentioned that she has had only a few clients recently.
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Too common of a story sadly.
 
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MysticStar said:
A lot less than before. Until mid-last year I was pretty good. I used to visit girls twice a month, even three times a month. My main places were SL, DH, SB and Vamps (formerly known as AA).
Things changed. I am a contractor and businesses have been very careful in hiring contractors and I ended up unemployed for several months.
I ended up getting a job in March and am still there however, with a much lower income.

Therefore, I have reduced my visits to once a month only and most of the time with the cheapest option available (20 or 30 minutes).

The girls have also been mentioning and complaining. Quinn (DH), mentioned to me a while ago that her regulars are no longer coming. Even Mia (SB) mentioned that she has had only a few clients recently.
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Mia is still pretty much fully booked every single time she's on the roster though? Not even because of prebooking since she normally pops up the roster at the last minute.

I do think punters are more selective with their money these days and tend to stick with the best and less likely to take risk and try new girls. So in some ways it makes the best girls continue to be diffcult to book, and we all know who those girls are 😘
 
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Banana said:
Mia is still pretty much fully booked every single time she's on the roster though? Not even because of prebooking since she normally pops up the roster at the last minute.

I do think punters are more selective with their money these days and tend to stick with the best and less likely to take risk and try new girls. So in some ways it makes the best girls continue to be diffcult to book, and we all know who those girls are 😘
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100% agree, only the good ones will survive. This will also weed out all the shit ones and put them on notice.
 
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I think age and weight training are probably the main reasons for me to have less desire. Sometimes I wonder what else I should spend on if I stop fooling around.
 
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Notanother said:
More expensive in the long run.
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Let me disagree on that one. In my 20s and even in my 30s I couldn't even think of seeing a SW. I simply couldn't afford that. And I didn't miss sex, I always had girlfriends short or long term. And we were all broke. I know in a forum like this it my sounds weird, but I'm relatively monogamous. Being middle aged married man in a relatively sexless marriage, punting is the only way to have some more sex. And variety. I'm not looking for a mistress or anything like that - that's not me.
Looking at my own kids and my mates kids, they are all poor, but with girl or boyfriends. It costs them nothing.
 
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BaiHui said:
Let me disagree on that one. In my 20s and even in my 30s I couldn't even think of seeing a SW. I simply couldn't afford that. And I didn't miss sex, I always had girlfriends short or long term. And we were all broke. I know in a forum like this it my sounds weird, but I'm relatively monogamous. Being middle aged married man in a relatively sexless marriage, punting is the only way to have some more sex. And variety. I'm not looking for a mistress or anything like that - that's not me.
Looking at my own kids and my mates kids, they are all poor, but with girl or boyfriends. It costs them nothing.
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He did say in the long run though. Wouldn't you agree that supporting a wife is more expensive if you look at dollar-per-fuck ratio over a long period of time? 😄
 
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dodo69 said:
He did say in the long run though. Wouldn't you agree that supporting a wife is more expensive if you look at dollar-per-fuck ratio over a long period of time? 😄
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Yeah, if look at that from dollar per fuck perspective it's extremely costly being married just for the sex lol.
 
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Well I know a guy who’s had two divorces. Several businesses involved. His accountant worked out the finance split and alimony was 1-2 escorts a week.
 
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BaiHui said:
Let me disagree on that one. In my 20s and even in my 30s I couldn't even think of seeing a SW. I simply couldn't afford that. And I didn't miss sex, I always had girlfriends short or long term. And we were all broke. I know in a forum like this it my sounds weird, but I'm relatively monogamous. Being middle aged married man in a relatively sexless marriage, punting is the only way to have some more sex. And variety. I'm not looking for a mistress or anything like that - that's not me.
Looking at my own kids and my mates kids, they are all poor, but with girl or boyfriends. It costs them nothing.
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I think we as men just want a woman that loves us for who we are and someone who doesn’t change us who we are and vice versa and we as men just want companionship so that we don’t end up lonely and maybe that’s the reason most of us go for paid sex, a lot of beautiful girls that I have seen over the time have told me you are very funny and in mind I thought yea I know but if we were outside you wouldn’t even give me this chance to show my personality because people judge and have perceptions about people.
I am lonely and miss companionship of a beautiful woman inside out and I have felt that a really good value woman can bring so much peace in life that most of us would even want sex , just companionship…..
 

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Gdsb001 said:
I think we as men just want a woman that loves us for who we are and someone who doesn’t change us who we are and vice versa and we as men just want companionship so that we don’t end up lonely and maybe that’s the reason most of us go for paid sex, a lot of beautiful girls that I have seen over the time have told me you are very funny and in mind I thought yea I know but if we were outside you wouldn’t even give me this chance to show my personality because people judge and have perceptions about people.
I am lonely and miss companionship of a beautiful woman inside out and I have felt that a really good value woman can bring so much peace in life that most of us would even want sex , just companionship…..
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Just a question. What’s your age range ?
 
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Gdsb001 said:
I am 35
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Ok….look ..believe me, you are very young and have plenty of options out there. Maybe you are looking at the wrong place.
Maybe you could start thinking about your looks, improve your hair cut, clothes, etc.. not saying you should change who you are but look a bit better. Confidence and knowing how to treat a woman are the most important things.
You could try dating apps but for me it’s a waste of time and money.
I have been in your situation and know how that feels. My problem is different though.
I am over 50, and men of this age range either needs to be very good looking or have a decent amount of resources (💰) to attract women.
I am not saying it’s impossible but only the desperate women, full of problems, will approach a man over 50.
Anyway, what I am trying to say is that you are in a good age range, just improve your looks, try to find women you share something with (sports ? Music ? Church ?) and put your head up….most women out there fake confidence…it’s just a game they play with men.
 
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Gdsb001 said:
I think we as men just want a woman that loves us for who we are and someone who doesn’t change us who we are and vice versa and we as men just want companionship so that we don’t end up lonely and maybe that’s the reason most of us go for paid sex, a lot of beautiful girls that I have seen over the time have told me you are very funny and in mind I thought yea I know but if we were outside you wouldn’t even give me this chance to show my personality because people judge and have perceptions about people.
I am lonely and miss companionship of a beautiful woman inside out and I have felt that a really good value woman can bring so much peace in life that most of us would even want sex , just companionship…..
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My advice to you;
Put yourself in situations where you are able to meet women, and have brief conversations with them. You need to make opportunities where you think you might meet women. You will fail a lot, and have a lot of disappointment, but the thing is to just keep trying.
I was the same when I was younger, I joined dating agency's, joined groups. My early 30s, I even went back to school and did a 3 year diploma course part time. Not because i needed an education, just did it for fun,and i just wanted to meet new people, particularly women. It was the best thing I ever did. I even got a dog, and went to dog parks on weekends. You'd be surprised how many women come up and chat when you have a dog. But yeah, it's really hard out there.
 
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Gdsb001 said:
I think we as men just want a woman that loves us for who we are and someone who doesn’t change us who we are and vice versa and we as men just want companionship so that we don’t end up lonely and maybe that’s the reason most of us go for paid sex, a lot of beautiful girls that I have seen over the time have told me you are very funny and in mind I thought yea I know but if we were outside you wouldn’t even give me this chance to show my personality because people judge and have perceptions about people.
I am lonely and miss companionship of a beautiful woman inside out and I have felt that a really good value woman can bring so much peace in life that most of us would even want sex , just companionship…..
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it’s sounds like you are looking for a forever partner. But believe me a SW isn’t the person for you, they are only there to provide a service and give you false hopes. If fact I’ve seen this happen multiple times when a client falls in love with a SW and it always ends up going south. Here is a perfect example of one

www.abc.net.au

'Cowardly' man jailed for firing shotgun at sex worker who refused him

An 89-year-old Melbourne man who fired a double-barrelled shotgun at a sex worker who rejected him, has been sentenced to four-and-a-half years in jail.
www.abc.net.au www.abc.net.au

Yes I know it’s from Australia, but that’s where I am from, im pretty sure it has happened in NZ before.
Always remember, SW only look at you as a walking ATM nothing more
 
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BT1 said:
it’s sounds like you are looking for a forever partner. But believe me a SW isn’t the person for you, they are only there to provide a service and give you false hopes. If fact I’ve seen this happen multiple times when a client falls in love with a SW and it always ends up going south. Here is a perfect example of one

www.abc.net.au

'Cowardly' man jailed for firing shotgun at sex worker who refused him

An 89-year-old Melbourne man who fired a double-barrelled shotgun at a sex worker who rejected him, has been sentenced to four-and-a-half years in jail.
www.abc.net.au www.abc.net.au

Yes I know it’s from Australia, but that’s where I am from, im pretty sure it has happened in NZ before.
Always remember, SW only look at you as a walking ATM nothing more
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He shot at sex worker Rica using a double-barrelled shotgun, but missed twice 😹
 
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Actually quite a good question, what is the average
MysticStar said:
Ok….look ..believe me, you are very young and have plenty of options out there. Maybe you are looking at the wrong place.
Maybe you could start thinking about your looks, improve your hair cut, clothes, etc.. not saying you should change who you are but look a bit better. Confidence and knowing how to treat a woman are the most important things.
You could try dating apps but for me it’s a waste of time and money.
I have been in your situation and know how that feels. My problem is different though.
I am over 50, and men of this age range either needs to be very good looking or have a decent amount of resources (💰) to attract women.
I am not saying it’s impossible but only the desperate women, full of problems, will approach a man over 50.
Anyway, what I am trying to say is that you are in a good age range, just improve your looks, try to find women you share something with (sports ? Music ? Church ?) and put your head up….most women out there fake confidence…it’s just a game they play with men.
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I think it comes down to the individual. Yeah 100 percent agree chasing something with a SWer isn't advised because it is their job to sell you a dream or fantasy and as you are walking away planning your future she is selling that same dream/fantasy to another punter. However this does not mean it can't be done. I have had the opportunity to see multiple SWers from LF, DH, Nz Girls and other agencies outside of their work. Its not hard to build a connection as its kind of reverse dating. Once walls come down it strangely starts too flow naturally. Real name, then the number then the od flirty message before going for a coffee, walking her dog and before you know it you're waking up next to her on a regular basis. This is great but it still takes a toll knowing what she's does for a job and you are always questioning whether how she acts with you still genuine or an act. Even if you do get to where am/have been its still not a natural relationship and if you let it can really fuck with your mind.
 
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Interesting thread.
I am happily shacked up, not looking to move on.

I have becoming a sounding board for two separate single female friends, both are looking for Mr Right.
They both have a lot to offer, educated, fun, and both have a high sex drive. But both have had poor experiences with dating, struggle to meet a solid guy that can hold their interest.

So there is both sides out there looking.
 
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