Vixens - Yuka (Performance Issue) Trusted Review

[dodo69]

Popped in Vixens for the first time. Only 2 girls available, Yuka and Hazuki. Was hoping to see Michelle but she wasn’t available so I picked Yuka instead. Hoping she’d be the cure my chronic case of deathgrip syndrome. Spoiler alert, it didn’t…

Anyway, back to the main event. She is a classic Japanese petite, very slender and cute. Started with a shower together. The BJ was a bit meh at first, just a few minutes of standard lip service. We moved to the bed for more, but I was struggling to stay dialed in. Then we flipped into 69 and holy fuck, this was the highlight. I was slurping her pussy for a solid 10 minutes. She tasted delicious and honestly I could have stayed there all day. But the hardware wasn't syncing. My dick felt fucking numb. She was putting in the work, but compared to the iron-grip I give myself, it felt like she was whispering to my junk while I needed her to scream at it.

For the main event I slapped the condom on for some missionary. Pounded away for a while but I was rocking a medium-hard vibe at best. Switched to doggy, then standing doggy, then back to missionary. The silver lining is her DFK is elite. Seriously, 9/10 on the tongue work. It felt real and passionate, but my dick just wasn’t cooperating today. Time was ticking and I wasn't even close. I was planning for 2 shots like a delusional hero, but I couldn't even fire one. Left with a heavy heart and a full tank (with some decent cardio).

I’m definitely suffering from porn addiction messing up the real-world experience. I’m so used to the visual over-stimulation of a screen that a real, breathing, gorgeous woman couldn't get me over the finish line. I'm wondering if any of the vets here have successfully re-sensitized after dealing with deathgrip. I masturbated 2 days ago and being in my mid-30s now, I'm thinking I might need a full week of monk mode to actually perform with a WS.

Note to self: skip the small talk to save time, book maybe 90min instead of 60min, watch some porn prior to get going?

I’m thinking of holding off and going back for a rematch in a few days once the brain is cleared. Any advice would be appreciated.

Face 7/10
Body 8/10
Tits 5/10 (definitely on the smaller side)
Foreplay 8/10
Sex 6/10 (mostly my fault)

 

[Shandy]

Appreciate the intel, sad you couldn’t bust one nut out but thats what happens with too much porn however it’s great when a girls a sweet kisser, so might consider a punt on her for that reason.

Take a two weeks off break, no porn or wanking. (One if you can’t hack two weeks) then punt someone else, or repeat her if you liked it that much and want to bust this time.

 

[dodo69]

Appreciate the intel, sad you couldn’t bust one nut out but thats what happens with too much porn however it’s great when a girls a sweet kisser, so might consider a punt on her for that reason.

Take a two weeks off break, no porn or wanking. (One if you can’t hack two weeks) then punt someone else, or repeat her if you liked it that much and want to bust this time.

I was hoping for a reset by Wednesday I would like to get as many sessions in as possible before leaving NZ. I never punted in my country because it’s highly illegal. Would you recommend Camilla for a total noob? Yuka was alright but she felt a little passive so maybe I’ll need someone to attack my pp with full force? Or would that be counterintuitive?

 

[GonaRear]

I was hoping for a reset by Wednesday I would like to get as many sessions in as possible before leaving NZ. I never punted in my country because it’s highly illegal. Would you recommend Camilla for a total noob? Yuka was alright but she felt a little passive so maybe I’ll need someone to attack my pp with full force? Or would that be counterintuitive?

Are you from Saudi

 

[dodo69]

Are you from Saudi

Sorry I prefer not to say. “Highly illegal” might be an exaggeration since it still happens here quite often. I just don’t do it because I’m way too ignorant of the penalties

 

[massagefan]

in my early 20s (start of my punting career) I could wank before bed then happily punt the next day. After the age of 23 I found I needed to build a few day’s worth of cum to fuck properly after wanking. Interestingly I don’t need a gap like this if have cummed from sex or even a hand job from a woman. I think in those situations the body builds up hormones , getting me ready quicker because it anticipates there may be more pussy available soon. Internet porn/wanking does not replicate this.

I would recommend waiting at least a week after wanking to see an escort. Concentrate on other things/do other physical activities to quietly build up your cum reserves and make seeing a nudie girl more of a novel experience.

It also sounds like you watch way too much porn and it may be desensitising your brain. A bit of porn is good to know your turn ons and think through fantasies but too much along with wanking rewires the brain away from knowing what to do when in the company of a living breathing woman.

Do you have any particular turn ons that almost always work to get you hard? For me French kissing a woman and licking her anus does the trick. I also find I usually get a boner if a woman licks my arsehole or gives my arsehole or under my balls a bit of tickle/loving gentle rub. These actions stimulate the prostate. Men’s prostates are very sensitive so this could prob help you get hard too.

One time I was visiting a SM girl who had a lovely personality but I didn’t find massively physically attractive so was initially struggling to get hard. She had great initiative though and gently put her finger in my arsehole to stimulate my prostate and I got rock hard, allowing her to give me a great handjob.

Find a good escort or SM girl who could give your arsehole a tickle or lick to see if you like it.

 

[Banana]

Thanks for sharing the deets and your struggle, great advices by everyone so please follow those where you can while you are in NZ. In general healthy lifestyle lead to better sex.

I will just add that may be find a non-asian WGs that can dirty talk well and an agency that has mirrors in the room, the combination of visual/audio stimulations may potentially trick your brain into thinking "porn" mode again. i.e. fuck the girl facing the mirror in doggy while she begs "please fuck me harder daddy..!", give her ass a few spanks while you at it.

Good luck bro!

 

[Banana]

Camila@DH is on this Wed, Thur btw. And yes she's noob friendly.

I suggest book at least a 60mins GFE, bring some additional cash for extras and tell her what you want. She will look after you mate.

 

[dodo69]

in my early 20s (start of my punting career) I could wank before bed then happily punt the next day. After the age of 23 I found I needed to build a few day’s worth of cum to fuck properly after wanking. Interestingly I don’t need a gap like this if have cummed from sex or even a hand job from a woman. I think in those situations the body builds up hormones , getting me ready quicker because it anticipates there may be more pussy available soon. Internet porn/wanking does not replicate this.

I would recommend waiting at least a week after wanking to see an escort. Concentrate on other things/do other physical activities to quietly build up your cum reserves and make seeing a nudie girl more of a novel experience.

It also sounds like you watch way too much porn and it may be desensitising your brain. A bit of porn is good to know your turn ons and think through fantasies but too much along with wanking rewires the brain away from knowing what to do when in the company of a living breathing woman.

Do you have any particular turn ons that almost always work to get you hard? For me French kissing a woman and licking her anus does the trick. I also find I usually get a boner if a woman licks my arsehole or gives my arsehole or under my balls a bit of tickle/loving gentle rub. These actions stimulate the prostate. Men’s prostates are very sensitive so this could prob help you get hard too.

One time I was visiting a SM girl who had a lovely personality but I didn’t find massively physically attractive so was initially struggling to get hard. She had great initiative though and gently put her finger in my arsehole to stimulate my prostate and I got rock hard, allowing her to give me a great handjob.

Find a good escort or SM girl who could give your arsehole a tickle or lick to see if you like it.

Oh man, sounds like everyone and even ChatGPT told me to wait for a week to unwire and reset the brain. I’ll see how horny I get by Wednesday. If not, probably Friday would be the latest. I exchanged enough NZ cash for 5 punts and would like to use them all Sucking on nipples and licking pussy usually turn me on, it just didn’t work that particular time. I don’t particularly enjoy dirty talk or people touching my arsehole. No worries, first time is still exploring and I still enjoyed the experience very much. Since I’m on a tight deadline here, how long do you think I can wait between punts? Could 2 days be do-able? or at least 4?

 

[dodo69]

Thanks for sharing the deets and your struggle, great advices by everyone so please follow those where you can while you are in NZ. In general healthy lifestyle lead to better sex.

I will just add that may be find a non-asian WGs that can dirty talk well and an agency that has mirrors in the room, the combination of visual/audio stimulations may potentially trick your brain into thinking "porn" mode again. i.e. fuck the girl facing the mirror in doggy while she begs "please fuck me harder daddy..!", give her ass a few spanks while you at it.

Good luck bro!

Thanks mate! I very much enjoyed the mirror. It was by far the best view I’ve seen in NZ As for dirty talk, I don’t quite like it that much. As long as there is some light moaning, I’m good. But who knows if that’s what I really like or what I’m accustomed to. The ideas of loud dirty talk and someone touching my butthole sound scary and very intriguing at the same time. Maybe it’s worth exploring…

Camila@DH is on this Wed, Thur btw. And yes she's noob friendly.

I suggest book at least a 60mins GFE, bring some additional cash for extras and tell her what you want. She will look after you mate.

Probably went through every single review here and she’s definitely the most consistent with great reviews. I planned to see last, but at this rate, I’ll need to see her quickly due to lack of availability.

 

[MysticStar]

I could give you a couple of suggestions to improve your situation:

1. You could visit an experienced SM only, and it needs to be someone who speaks fluent English. The girl will take care of you and make you feel relaxed.
2. You could visit someone for FS, as long as it's a more mature, more experienced and kiwi (or english speaking) girl.

In any of the examples above, you will not be under pressure to perform and will not have language barriers or misunderstandings.
I do remember in the past when under severe stress due to work and personal things, I decided to visit a girl to make me feel relaxed; however, the girl was totally passive, and a foreigner, who had to use the App to communicate.

That made things even worse, and it took me a while to be in the mood.

 

[dodo69]

I could give you a couple of suggestions to improve your situation:

1. You could visit an experienced SM only, and it needs to be someone who speaks fluent English. The girl will take care of you and make you feel relaxed.
2. You could visit someone for FS, as long as it's a more mature, more experienced and kiwi (or english speaking) girl.

In any of the examples above, you will not be under pressure to perform and will not have language barriers or misunderstandings.
I do remember in the past when under severe stress due to work and personal things, I decided to visit a girl to make me feel relaxed; however, the girl was totally passive, and a foreigner, who had to use the App to communicate.

That made things even worse, and it took me a while to be in the mood.

Very good points… Work has been pretty rough lately, and the next day presentation crossed my mind a few times during the session; and it was very distracting. I personally don’t mind the language barrier though since I’ve been consuming JAVs my whole life.

 

[MysticStar]

Sorry for using your post for an unrelated question.
Is Yuka unshaven as usual, as many Japs are ? Or, for those who know the girls at Vixens, does anybody know of any unshaven Jap there ?

 

[dodo69]

Sorry for using your post for an unrelated question.
Is Yuka unshaven as usual, as many Japs are ? Or, for those who know the girls at Vixens, does anybody know of any unshaven Jap there ?

All good. She’s shaven but I think it was done 2-3 days ago so her pussy hair and leg hair had started growing back a little bit. It had that slight prickly stubble going on. I don't mind and actually quite enjoy it weirdly enough. Visually you cannot see it though.

 

[MysticStar]

All good. She’s shaven but I think it was done 2-3 days ago so her pussy hair and leg hair had started growing back a little bit. It had that slight prickly stubble going on. I don't mind and actually quite enjoy it weirdly enough. Visually you cannot see it though.

OK thanks. I prefer unshaved girls. I really enjoy a hairy pussy.

 

[massagefan]

Oh man, sounds like everyone and even ChatGPT told me to wait for a week to unwire and reset the brain. I’ll see how horny I get by Wednesday. If not, probably Friday would be the latest. I exchanged enough NZ cash for 5 punts and would like to use them all Sucking on nipples and licking pussy usually turn me on, it just didn’t work that particular time. I don’t particularly enjoy dirty talk or people touching my arsehole. No worries, first time is still exploring and I still enjoyed the experience very much. Since I’m on a tight deadline here, how long do you think I can wait between punts? Could 2 days be do-able? or at least 4?

Given your last sexual experience was with a woman, rather than yourself (I assume), hopefully your body is already reconditioning so you possibly don’t need as long a gap before your next escort visit.

 

[Bigdog23]

Just gotta quit the porn and choking the chicken, go cold turkey, thats what I did.

 

[Shandy]

I was hoping for a reset by Wednesday I would like to get as many sessions in as possible before leaving NZ. I never punted in my country because it’s highly illegal.

Get in the right mindset & don’t try and rush just to fuck. You’ll probably end up overthinking shit & have another problem punt.

Try a SM first if you really think you’ll have another issue with a FS. The SM from what i’ve read about on another platform usually helps you ease into whoring , just don’t waste your money on extras

 

[Innielover]

Punting is expensive. Keep some cum in the tank and make sure it's a good one.

I try to book someone, and if it falls through on the same day, I don't try find a quick replacement.

 

[massagefan]

Punting is expensive. Keep some cum in the tank and make sure it's a good one.

I try to book someone, and if it falls through on the same day, I don't try find a quick replacement.

Trying to quickly book a replacement when a preferred booking isn’t available is commonly the path to Old Amy.

 

[dodo69]

Rogers Will take it slow and report back.

 

[Notanother]

Go with Camilla at DH 60 min PSE ( or Lite if you don’t want anal) Minimum. Tell her your issue. She will take it as a challenge.

 

[Banana]

Punting is expensive. Keep some cum in the tank and make sure it's a good one.

I try to book someone, and if it falls through on the same day, I don't try find a quick replacement.

Good advice but now days I always try to line up at least two back ups in case the 1st choice fell over.

Had a few like that recently where the girl suddenly called in sick etc. and the back up girl became what I call an angry fuck.

 

[Notanother]

Good advice but now days I always try to line up at least two back ups in case the 1st choice fell over.

Had a few like that recently where the girl suddenly called in sick etc. and the back up girl became what I call an angry fuck.

Backup is the angry fuck ?
Not your backups fault. You’re lucky to sort a backup. One advantage of agency is they an offer you a backup. Harder if it’s an Indy you’ve booked.

 

[Innielover]

Go with Camilla at DH 60 min PSE ( or Lite if you don’t want anal) Minimum. Tell her your issue. She will take it as a challenge.

Shes back on the roster. Get in

 

[Tallhat]

Go with Camilla at DH 60 min PSE ( or Lite if you don’t want anal) Minimum. Tell her your issue. She will take it as a challenge.

Sorry to ask, whats DH? And Camilla does anal? I like anal.

 

[Banana]

Backup is the angry fuck ?
Not your backups fault. You’re lucky to sort a backup. One advantage of agency is they an offer you a backup. Harder if it’s an Indy you’ve booked.

I should clarify I use the term "angry fuck" in the most positive light. There are a few SWs that fit into that back up category, really submissive and sweet. I will tell them I had someone cancelled on me hence the last minute booking and they will go "...just use me and let all your frustrations out!!"

 

[Banana]

Sorry to ask, whats DH? And Camilla does anal? I like anal.

1. Dollhouse (escort agency in the CDB)
2. Yes, as part of her PSE service
3. Go book her

 

[Shandy]

I should clarify I use the term "angry fuck" in the most positive light. There are a few SWs that fit into that back up category, really submissive and sweet. I will tell them I had someone cancelled on me hence the last minute booking and they will go "...just use me and let all your frustrations out!!"

Link to those

 

[Banana]

Link to those

Lyra lee x | Auckland escort | Tel: 0226360275

Available today from 12noon till late cum play x x bookings via text x Booking is easy please text xx Name Age Service wanted an duration Preferred time I w...

escortify.co.nz

Have fun lol

 

[Shandy]

Lyra lee x | Auckland escort | Tel: 0226360275

Available today from 12noon till late cum play x x bookings via text x Booking is easy please text xx Name Age Service wanted an duration Preferred time I w...

escortify.co.nz

Have fun lol

Just as i thought we became pimp buds, you hit me with a curveball

 

[Banana]

Just as i thought we became pimp buds, you hit me with a curveball

You clicked on the link though right??

 

[Ricks]

Bro, same with me... First few pints I can't cum... Had to finish it with my death grip hand beating my meat ferociously just to cum...

I suffered porn addiction and also death grip syndrome. BOTH! I did not feel any sensation when during the pussy fuck. No sensation with oral as well. Only work with my own hand.

But slowly I started to make it work. But you know how long it took for me? Around 4-6 weeks! No porn and no fap!!

It started to work... But kind of 50% of the time I can cum, 50% of the time I have performance issues. Up till now I am still trying to re-sensitised my meat and avoid any porn at all cost... This is a long process, at least for me.

I start slow. Instead of stopping porn and fap straight away which didn't work. Instead of watching porn I only watch a still image. And instead of using hard grip, I started to be a bit more gentle towards my meat. Later, remove porn completely, and try falling with only hands slowly. It's a long process of recovery for me man... I was soo deep into this porn and death grip fap.... Hopefully you can recover as well....

But also yeah, punting helps me a lot in "reintroducing real sex" to me. And I find experienced WG is usually better and more likely than not I would be able to cum... I still sometimes could not cum but the occurence slowly becoming less and less, especially if I am with an experienced WG.

Also as mentioned, you need to know your "fetish" or what you like. I find it DFK, a real and sloppy one, helps a lot in maintaining my erection. So that's why I always pay extra for DFK whenever I can. Also position can help. I find it missionary (supported with pillow) is better for me. I can DFK while I am ramming my meat, also looking at the beautiful face of the WG while doing it helps a lot. Especially if we are staring at each others while doing it Also you can lift and put her legs together to help make her pussy feels tighter.

Once that works, can start find other variety of position and activities slowly.

Good luck... I am still recovering myself... It gets better with time... Hopefully you too can get better my man

 

[dodo69]

Bro, same with me... First few pints I can't cum... Had to finish it with my death grip hand beating my meat ferociously just to cum...

I suffered porn addiction and also death grip syndrome. BOTH! I did not feel any sensation when during the pussy fuck. No sensation with oral as well. Only work with my own hand.

But slowly I started to make it work. But you know how long it took for me? Around 4-6 weeks! No porn and no fap!!

It started to work... But kind of 50% of the time I can cum, 50% of the time I have performance issues. Up till now I am still trying to re-sensitised my meat and avoid any porn at all cost... This is a long process, at least for me.

I start slow. Instead of stopping porn and fap straight away which didn't work. Instead of watching porn I only watch a still image. And instead of using hard grip, I started to be a bit more gentle towards my meat. Later, remove porn completely, and try falling with only hands slowly. It's a long process of recovery for me man... I was soo deep into this porn and death grip fap.... Hopefully you can recover as well....

But also yeah, punting helps me a lot in "reintroducing real sex" to me. And I find experienced WG is usually better and more likely than not I would be able to cum... I still sometimes could not cum but the occurence slowly becoming less and less, especially if I am with an experienced WG.

Also as mentioned, you need to know your "fetish" or what you like. I find it DFK, a real and sloppy one, helps a lot in maintaining my erection. So that's why I always pay extra for DFK whenever I can. Also position can help. I find it missionary (supported with pillow) is better for me. I can DFK while I am ramming my meat, also looking at the beautiful face of the WG while doing it helps a lot. Especially if we are staring at each others while doing it Also you can lift and put her legs together to help make her pussy feels tighter.

Once that works, can start find other variety of position and activities slowly.

Good luck... I am still recovering myself... It gets better with time... Hopefully you too can get better my man

Thanks for sharing! A work-around I found was to simply jerk off towards the end and then insert, hump for a few seconds, then bust. Or I can just masturbate and cum in their mouth or their body

Regardless, I’m on day 10 since I last came. Horny like a MF… Trying to stay monk mode til early April without touching my meat. I have been jerking off everyday for the last 15 years so yeah, it’ll take a while for me to rewire as well.

Appreciate you for the tips and recommendations. Will definitely think over and consider

 

[Ricks]

Anndd... I am a hypocrite... I just broke my own advice...

Can't find time to punt recently, all girls on my TO DO list are not working, money a bit tight as well so don't want to spend it on random one, been horny af for a while, trying to hold on until this weekend to book my beautiful blonde girl...

I break... Gave in to my temptation and beating my meat again... I hope I can still perform later this weekend...

I guess, I am back to day 1 without fapping...

 

[Banana]

Anndd... I am a hypocrite... I just broke my own advice...

Can't find time to punt recently, all girls on my TO DO list are not working, money a bit tight as well so don't want to spend it on random one, been horny af for a while, trying to hold on until this weekend to book my beautiful blonde girl...

I break... Gave in to my temptation and beating my meat again... I hope I can still perform later this weekend...

I guess, I am back to day 1 without fapping...

We are here rooting for you.

You have at least 3 days to recover so I think you will be fine!

 

[dodo69]

Anndd... I am a hypocrite... I just broke my own advice...

Can't find time to punt recently, all girls on my TO DO list are not working, money a bit tight as well so don't want to spend it on random one, been horny af for a while, trying to hold on until this weekend to book my beautiful blonde girl...

I break... Gave in to my temptation and beating my meat again... I hope I can still perform later this weekend...

I guess, I am back to day 1 without fapping...

I got myself a sex toy called Tenga Flip Zero. I use it so I can’t grip my meat too hard. Give it a try.

 

[BaiHui]

I've been punting for about 12 years, but most of the time not very regularly. Around and after covid I hadn't punted for years. Then 2-3 times per year. And I used to masturbate a lot. Half a year ago I started punting much more often. Every month, some times 2 - 3 times per week.
Since the start of this spree I've masturbated only once or twice. I guess the moral of the story is if I fuck regularly I don't need to wank.

 

[IronMonger]

The mental side - and sometimes physical - makes a big difference.
Sometimes the body is just not in the zone and I can't get properly hard, other times I can have sex every day and still perform.

If I want to build for a punt, I'll sometimes just watch a little bit of porn to tickle me up, build some hormones, but never enough to properly get going.

 

[Notanother]

I've been punting for about 12 years, but most of the time not very regularly. Around and after covid I hadn't punted for years. Then 2-3 times per year. And I used to masturbate a lot. Half a year ago I started punting much more often. Every month, some times 2 - 3 times per week.
Since the start of this spree I've masturbated only once or twice. I guess the moral of the story is if I fuck regularly I don't need to wank.

Absolutely. Point 2-3 times a week removes need for Mrs Palmer