DarkElmo
Sleaze
- Messages
- 36
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Guys, romanticizing a provider has the exact opposite effect of what you think she’ll feel.
Quite a few of you, go into a session thinking you need to be the "nice guy" who stands out by "pampering" her or acting like a White Knight,
but in reality, that’s just a creepy mistake. You have to realize that she doesn't need rescuing.
When you try to turn a business deal into a fake romantic "fine dining" experience, you aren't being a gentleman—
You're just forcing a fake emotional frame onto a professional who is trying to do her job.
It’s a simp move that kills the vibe because you’re trying to buy the feeling of being "special" instead of just owning the trade.
You’ve got to learn to read the room and use some Theory of Mind (Look up the concept). When a girl is on the clock,
she’s there to provide a high-value service, not to be your girlfriend.
If you’ve ever noticed her body language getting stiff or her smile looking forced when you start acting all "romantic,"
that’s because you’re being a pest without realizing it. To her, you’re a client, and when you start catching feelings or trying to "save" her,
you’re crossing a line she didn't agree to. It’s an awkward burden for her to carry.
You’re ignoring her reality and projecting your own lonely fantasy onto her, which is the opposite of being respectful.
We also need to talk about your own mental frame, because catching feelings makes you a massive liability.
Do you really want to enter a purely transactional interaction and risk your own peace of mind?
It’s time to sober up. When you get "romantically" invested, you start taking every professional boundary personally.
If she says "no" to specific extra services or the session ends right on the hour, the "Nice Guy"
Mask slips because you feel rejected as a person, not just a customer.
That’s how things get ugly and how guys end up becoming the creep they never intended to be.
At the end of the day, being intellectually honest is the only way to keep your dignity.
Punters aren't villains for wanting a service, and escorts aren't victims for providing one—
You are both independent adults making a fair exchange. The most respectful thing you can do is lead with a clear, purely sexual frame.
No lies, no fake "date" fluff, just: "I’m here for a premium experience, and I’m paying you to be my partner in it."
That’s the Trader Principle in action. It’s clean, it’s honest, and it’s a 10/10 experience for both sides because nobody has to pretend they’re on a Tinder date that isn’t real.
Quite a few of you, go into a session thinking you need to be the "nice guy" who stands out by "pampering" her or acting like a White Knight,
but in reality, that’s just a creepy mistake. You have to realize that she doesn't need rescuing.
When you try to turn a business deal into a fake romantic "fine dining" experience, you aren't being a gentleman—
You're just forcing a fake emotional frame onto a professional who is trying to do her job.
It’s a simp move that kills the vibe because you’re trying to buy the feeling of being "special" instead of just owning the trade.
You’ve got to learn to read the room and use some Theory of Mind (Look up the concept). When a girl is on the clock,
she’s there to provide a high-value service, not to be your girlfriend.
If you’ve ever noticed her body language getting stiff or her smile looking forced when you start acting all "romantic,"
that’s because you’re being a pest without realizing it. To her, you’re a client, and when you start catching feelings or trying to "save" her,
you’re crossing a line she didn't agree to. It’s an awkward burden for her to carry.
You’re ignoring her reality and projecting your own lonely fantasy onto her, which is the opposite of being respectful.
We also need to talk about your own mental frame, because catching feelings makes you a massive liability.
Do you really want to enter a purely transactional interaction and risk your own peace of mind?
It’s time to sober up. When you get "romantically" invested, you start taking every professional boundary personally.
If she says "no" to specific extra services or the session ends right on the hour, the "Nice Guy"
Mask slips because you feel rejected as a person, not just a customer.
That’s how things get ugly and how guys end up becoming the creep they never intended to be.
At the end of the day, being intellectually honest is the only way to keep your dignity.
Punters aren't villains for wanting a service, and escorts aren't victims for providing one—
You are both independent adults making a fair exchange. The most respectful thing you can do is lead with a clear, purely sexual frame.
No lies, no fake "date" fluff, just: "I’m here for a premium experience, and I’m paying you to be my partner in it."
That’s the Trader Principle in action. It’s clean, it’s honest, and it’s a 10/10 experience for both sides because nobody has to pretend they’re on a Tinder date that isn’t real.