Gentleman, do you need good game to have a great time with an escort?

[DarkElmo]

Game is basically like social skills/ conversation skills tuned for sex and dating.
Some of you guys in your reviews put porn stars to shame.
A lot of you seem very sophisticated and know how to enjoy a woman and seem to take lead!

So how do you do it? Is there an art to talking to escorts and getting the best service?

 

[Banana]

Game is basically like social skills/ conversation skills tuned for sex and dating.
Some of you guys in your reviews put porn stars to shame.
A lot of you seem very sophisticated and know how to enjoy a woman and seem to take lead!

So how do you do it? Is there an art to talking to escorts and getting the best service?

Interesting question and I can probably write a whole essay about it but can be summaried into "be nice and just go with the flow".

There are so many factors that may influence the interactions between a SW and a punter so I don't tend to overthink. At the end of the day you are the paying customer, just tell'em what you want in a respectful manner. You pay good money to bypass the so call "game" lol

 

[Shandy]

Interesting question and I can probably write a whole essay about it but can be summaried into "be nice and just go with the flow".

There are so many factors that may influence the interactions between a SW and a punter so I don't tend to overthink. At the end of the day you are the paying customer, just tell'em what you want in a respectful manner. You pay good money to bypass the so call "game" lol

Pretty much bang on, @DarkElmo unless your tryna be mr captain save a hoe, you just go in there & have your fun, overthinking shit will make it worse for you.

 

[Banana]

Pretty much bang on, @DarkElmo unless your tryna be mr captain save a hoe, you just go in there & have your fun, overthinking shit will make it worse for you.

Haha yea @DarkElmo just be your usual puppeteer self with those ropes mate. I bet those girls that gave consent to it loved those more unique experience, bet it's better than just sucking off another dude for the 100th time lol.

 

[DarkElmo]

Quite a few girls small talk with me by unloading their problems, presumably because I look very nerdy.
Sierra was fucking fantastic though. But I've had a girl from Lafleur tell me about her daddy issues.
I've had a girl from "the bedroom" tell me about how her partner beat her that she ended up vomiting in pain.
Some escorts feel no restrain in speaking their troubles with me.
They still provided me with the service I paid for, but it would have been better if they kept their
problems to themselves.

So I was thinking maybe some of you know how to consistently get good energy out of an escort!
Disappointingly, a lot of these escorts, in my experience, don't seem to realize that we are expecting
a very sex positive attitude from them.
I don't want to feel bad for them while I'm fucking them!

 

[Banana]

Quite a few girls small talk with me by unloading their problems, presumably because I look very nerdy.
Sierra was fucking fantastic though. But I've had a girl from Lafleur tell me about her daddy issues.
I've had a girl from "the bedroom" tell me about how her partner beat her that she ended up vomiting in pain.
Some escorts feel no restrain in speaking their troubles with me.
They still provided me with the service I paid for, but it would have been better if they kept their
problems to themselves.

So I was thinking maybe some of you know how to consistently get good energy out of an escort!
Disappointingly, a lot of these escorts, in my experience, don't seem to realize that we are expecting
a very sex positive attitude from them.
I don't want to feel bad for them while I'm fucking them!

Yea, I had similar experience as well. Some girls probably are stalling for time, some may actually see you as a nice dude and want to unload (some punters love that shit, giving advices to young escorts etc.), also always take what SWs said with a grain of salt.

Utimately you vote with your wallet, either don't go back or just shove a cock in her mouth (gently).

 

[MysticStar]

Game is basically like social skills/ conversation skills tuned for sex and dating.
Some of you guys in your reviews put porn stars to shame.
A lot of you seem very sophisticated and know how to enjoy a woman and seem to take lead!

So how do you do it? Is there an art to talking to escorts and getting the best service?

Dear DarkElmo,
Well, there's not really an art or trick to get the best service from a girl. I think the main thing is "respect". At least this is what I do.

When I meet a SW, I introduce myself, kiss her face and give her a hug, usually I highlight something nice on her such as "wow..you have a beautiful hair" or "you are so tall"....."what a beautiful accent...where are you from ?". Sometimes it's about the place like "this place is so clean and nice...well done"

This usually sets the beginning of the session, and I measure how open she is, based on her answers....

Once the session ends, I usually give her some compliments. Usually, the girls ask me questions like "so, what are you going to do next ?" or "do you live far away ?" or "ohh..I think you have a lipstick mark on your face, you will need a shower" ....

I answer these questions, and the maximum I open up about myself is "I live quite far away....no worries, I don't need another shower as I am not married and don't even have a partner". "I am OK..thanks"

As a rule...I never..EVER...go into emotional conversations like "oh fuck...I am so depressed...nobody loves me...that's why I need to find some sexual relief with prostitutes"... And...if they do start some sort of complaint about their personal lives such as lack of money, abusive partner, family issues, etc...I just say...."hmmm.. I am sorry about that, I hope you find a solution soon and things get better for you". That's all.

At least for me, things always work out....exactly the same as if I was having a haircut, for example. Minimum talk about your personal lives, problems, issues,...and move on to business only.

 

[JohnnyPunter]

I guess it comes down to what you want out of booking. If you want to connect with the girl and have a more intimate girlfriend experience it would be beneficial to riz them a bit and build connection.

If you just want to fuck them and empty your balls on their tits and enjoy the visuals, game not necessary.

There is only so much you can do in a 30-60 minute window anyway.

 

[customer]

Yeah solid advice above, just chiming in to say that you're not the only one. I haven't heard anything quite along the lines of a current abusive partner etc, but have had my share of WGs oversharing. Always blew my mind to read past claims of WGs that they're "therapists" for many clients as much as they are sexual partners - I'd often be thinking that my experience was the reverse.

 

[JohnnyPunter]

Yeah solid advice above, just chiming in to say that you're not the only one. I haven't heard anything quite along the lines of a current abusive partner etc, but have had my share of WGs oversharing. Always blew my mind to read past claims of WGs that they're "therapists" for many clients as much as they are sexual partners - I'd often be thinking that my experience was the reverse.

Worst one I had was when a young 19 year old one felt the need to discuss how she was sexually abused as a child. Was one of my worst bookings despite the fact she had a hot young body.

 

[Bigdog23]

I found if you try and build a rapport with them from the start, make conversion, crack a joke, make them laugh, make them feel comfortable with you, it makes for a great session

 

[GripMaster]

@DarkElmo

I’m going to be blunt with you (hopefully my comments on working girls don't offend you) and offer an alternative approach.

Let me teach you the way of the Sith (GripMaster). As I have said before these women are damaged goods and often have a plethora of issues (psychological, mental, emotional, fiscal, etc.) that they continue to make worse instead of better (pimps, bad choices in men, not saving, having an exit plan), meaning they are also dumb. I know there are exceptions to the rule but if they were intelligent they wouldn’t be here.

But you can use this to your advantage in order to amplify your experience within the boundaries of the booking. Some very solid advice - being nice is a good start but as you said don't be “Mr Nice Guy”.

If they open up immediately without prying I do like to press just a little. For example an abusive boyfriend - “god that must piss you off”, “I’m sure you must do a lot for him and he couldn’t even do that?” - something along those lines but altered to the situation. At the same maybe start playing with their legs, maybe their hair, keep the conversation flowing for a minute then when you get to a pause hit them with “well fuck em - you’re the better person”. Then immediately land a kiss and get it on. This way you sort of pick up their spirits and get their confidence up. However, do not ever mention anything along the lines of “we’ll let's get back at him” - implying that you and her need to prove something - this is a high risk high reward strategy - you could end up with a sex demon ready to unleash or all her pent up frustration out on your cock or be seen as a creep. Just not worth it.

Daddy issues - well that's my speciality but I’d like to think alongside Banana I’m SL’s in-house therapist. This is a bit more tricky and probably involves a bit more conversation but I always find the 10-15 minutes of investment here can lead to something major pornography studios would be jealous of. Send me a message about the girl at LF - I’ll be happy to help her out.

Again, it's all about reading the situation. For example Camilla and Adrianna at the Dollhouse, great providers (not my cup of tea) but they just get it on so no need for any of the above.

I just also want to comment on your earlier post about Villains in this game. Are we the villains - SF seem to think so, or is it Agent47 their new overlord? An actual pimp. Do we prey on these girls - not really - who puts these girls who clearly have issues into these positions? Would they encourage their own family members to pursue this path? Food for thought.

 

[Banana]

Daddy issues - well that's my speciality but I’d like to think alongside Banana I’m SL’s in-house therapist. This is a bit more tricky and probably involves a bit more conversation but I always find the 10-15 minutes of investment here can lead to something major pornography studios would be jealous of. Send me a message about the girl at LF - I’ll be happy to help her out.

I am no SL therapist but just a simple man who likes to hang out with legally aged young hotties.

Can I flick you a message too oh Lord Darth Sidious, think I have lost my way and am slowly drifting to the Light side lol

 

[customer]

@DarkElmo

I’m going to be blunt with you (hopefully my comments on working girls don't offend you) and offer an alternative approach.

Let me teach you the way of the Sith (GripMaster). As I have said before these women are damaged goods and often have a plethora of issues (psychological, mental, emotional, fiscal, etc.) that they continue to make worse instead of better (pimps, bad choices in men, not saving, having an exit plan), meaning they are also dumb. I know there are exceptions to the rule but if they were intelligent they wouldn’t be here.

But you can use this to your advantage in order to amplify your experience within the boundaries of the booking. Some very solid advice - being nice is a good start but as you said don't be “Mr Nice Guy”.

If they open up immediately without prying I do like to press just a little. For example an abusive boyfriend - “god that must piss you off”, “I’m sure you must do a lot for him and he couldn’t even do that?” - something along those lines but altered to the situation. At the same maybe start playing with their legs, maybe their hair, keep the conversation flowing for a minute then when you get to a pause hit them with “well fuck em - you’re the better person”. Then immediately land a kiss and get it on. This way you sort of pick up their spirits and get their confidence up. However, do not ever mention anything along the lines of “we’ll let's get back at him” - implying that you and her need to prove something - this is a high risk high reward strategy - you could end up with a sex demon ready to unleash or all her pent up frustration out on your cock or be seen as a creep. Just not worth it.

Daddy issues - well that's my speciality but I’d like to think alongside Banana I’m SL’s in-house therapist. This is a bit more tricky and probably involves a bit more conversation but I always find the 10-15 minutes of investment here can lead to something major pornography studios would be jealous of. Send me a message about the girl at LF - I’ll be happy to help her out.

Again, it's all about reading the situation. For example Camilla and Adrianna at the Dollhouse, great providers (not my cup of tea) but they just get it on so no need for any of the above.

I just also want to comment on your earlier post about Villains in this game. Are we the villains - SF seem to think so, or is it Agent47 their new overlord? An actual pimp. Do we prey on these girls - not really - who puts these girls who clearly have issues into these positions? Would they encourage their own family members to pursue this path? Food for thought.

This is a great explanation of dealing the situations that can arise, while really just expanding on some of what's been previously outlined.

You go in there.
To build a little rapport at the start you make some conversation, ideally light and with humour.
If she presents with issues, you work some empathy into that building of rapport.
And then whatever the nature of the convo thus far, you take a cue from something that is said to segue into kissing, touching etc like the smooth Elmo you are. This part of the booking is what you're there for.

The problem can be that some of these hoes are such motormouths that it makes interrupting for the smooth segue rather challenging. So on occasions it may need to be less smooth.

 

[bobby]

When they talk too much at the start I just lean in close to them and start to kiss them to let then know it's time. They usually stop talking after..

 

[Jimbo]

Generally same as all the above, my experience is the more comfortable you make them feel around you the better the service you’ll get.

 

[Notanother]

Worst one I had was when a young 19 year old one felt the need to discuss how she was sexually abused as a child. Was one of my worst bookings despite the fact she had a hot young body.

Yeah I appreciate and mention some of there artwork since it’s on display as a safeish talking point. Then a while ago had one mention the tattoo is a memory of someone who helped them when they got raped as a 13 year old. Changed the subject by fucking her again. TBH should have punted her more. That’s what we are both there for ultimately

 

[Funky]

Given I prefer Asian dishes, the added bonus is no time wasted on chit chat. I’m there to fuck not be their therapist. Warm them up and then party time.