Anyone tried a little 50 Shades of Grey with an Escort and had her tied up?

[DarkElmo]

What can I say, I get a kick out of being able to act like the bad guy and tie up a girl.
I've been like that from a very young age and is damm near a fetish.
i.e. Something I have to do to make sex enjoyable.
I feel lucky that many kiwi escorts have agreed to allow this with me and I've always
had a good time doing it.

Usually I take a variety of material with me to a session if the girl agrees to this.
Pantyhose, neck ties, rope, tape. If she is not keen on the rough material, I ask
whether she is open to trying the softer material.
I don't know if this is true, but nearly every time the lady has said that it was her first time
being fucked while tied up.lol.

For any newbies, there is an acronym in the community called SSC, which stands for Safe, Sane and Consensual.
Do your research online and most importantly be safe. You don't want to injure her!

My most recent encounter was with Sierra Spencer from Auckland.
And I have a booking with Dove Sinclair for some tie up fun in a couple weeks which I am looking forward to.

What about you guys? What are your experiences like? Have you ever dreamed of something like this?

 

[JohnnyPunter]

Not really tying up, but have used handcuffs.

 

[jwoo]

So the idea is you tie them up, then fuck them?

 

[Notanother]

Restraints only so far.

 

[DarkElmo]

So the idea is you tie them up, then fuck them?

Yup!

 

[jwoo]

Yup!

I haven't tried anything rough like this before. I have heard that Dixie (ad not currently up) has a customisable PSE option, which may cater to something along these lines.

 

[massagefan]

I have used soft handcuffs with a girl in my private life but have never done anything more than that. I heard quite a few women are into this stuff. I had one ex who liked being spanked hard but I never tied her up - I assume she prob would have been into it.

Usually when I am horny my brain does not function well beyond “pussy! Pussy! Anus licking!!!” so i have been weary about doing anything more intense with ropes, chains or ties in case I inadvertently caused injury. If I could learn how to do it properly I would be interested though.

 

[Notanother]

Yup!

That position is fun but advise to drop trou. Bit awkward later when you’ve got wet marks on your trou front.

 

[JohnnyPunter]

To be honest I think the 50 shades of gray or tying up thing is better done with a partner than an escort. Especially if you have a girlfriend/missus that is submissive and trusts you enough to let you do just about anything. That way you don't have to worry about issues with consent and boundries etc. Unless you find a very rare escort like Vicki at SC (when first started out) who genuinely gets off on that kind of thing.

 

[jwoo]

To be honest I think the 50 shades of gray or tying up thing is better done with a partner than an escort. Especially if you have a girlfriend/missus that is submissive and trusts you enough to let you do just about anything. That way you don't have to worry about issues with consent and boundries etc. Unless you find a very rare escort like Vicki at SC (when first started out) who genuinely gets off on that kind of thing.

You're less likely to get in trouble

 

[DarkElmo]

To be honest I think the 50 shades of gray or tying up thing is better done with a partner than an escort. Especially if you have a girlfriend/missus that is submissive and trusts you enough to let you do just about anything. That way you don't have to worry about issues with consent and boundries etc. Unless you find a very rare escort like Vicki at SC (when first started out) who genuinely gets off on that kind of thing.

I've only ever tried this stuff with escorts and the bedroom in Wellington was my first place to go.
Sarah who heads the Bedroom is very understanding and if you explain your kinks and fetishes in a understandable way, she
will try and accommodate you.
Through her I've gotten to have bondage sex with heaps of girls.
You must know there's a thrill in meeting a new woman and getting to have sex with her.
Tieing up a girl is the same kinda deal.
It's exciting to try it with a new girl.lol.

If any of you guys are feeling nervous trying this stuff, just do some basic research into the kink scene and only
use soft materials like pantyhose and neck ties to tie a girl.
There's just a whole other level of dominance and control you get to feel when she surrenders to your restraints.
I highly recommend it.

 

[JohnnyPunter]

Have you ever tried FetLife and all of that? If you are experienced in it you might be able to find a kinky girl who'll let you hog tie her for free.

 

[DarkElmo]

Have you ever tried FetLife and all of that? If you are experienced in it you might be able to find a kinky girl who'll let you hog tie her for free.

I am trying that avenue but the simps have massively inflated the price of even the bare minimum attractive to women to sky high level.
Women are showered with compliments on pretty much all online sites.
And the men are just shamelessly posting dick pic after dick pic.
It's hard to compete.
I haven't given up though. I am working on an angle that might see some results.
But meanwhile I get to bang tied up women who are waaaay out of my league for an understandable price.

 

[FostexTurtle]

I am trying that avenue but the simps have massively inflated the price of even the bare minimum attractive to women to sky high level.
Women are showered with compliments on pretty much all online sites.
And the men are just shamelessly posting dick pic after dick pic.
It's hard to compete.
I haven't given up though. I am working on an angle that might see some results.
But meanwhile I get to bang tied up women who are waaaay out of my league for an understandable price.

Agree on FL. Mostly filled with fat chicks with over inflated egos.

I've pulled a few off that site over the years, and had some good times.

I still try, but generally find most of these broads can't even maintain a decent conversation. The level is pretty low there, especially in NZ. Lots of eye candy though.

 

[massagefan]

Agree on FL. Mostly filled with fat chicks with over inflated egos.

I've pulled a few off that site over the years, and had some good times.

I still try, but generally find most of these broads can't even maintain a decent conversation. The level is pretty low there, especially in NZ. Lots of eye candy though.

I have noticed a general trend that fat chicks are often obnoxiously loud and arrogant. They vastly overestimate how attractive they are and unreasonably demand a lot from others in their lives, especially men.

I find it strange because I have found some attractive thin girls are shy and even have body confidence issues. Whereas these obnoxious whales have inflated egos and are over confident.

 

[Notanother]

I punted three female escorts who were into that. All retired now. Two loves the rope play ( apparently the Japanese ropes are very soft) and one was a very kinky big ass escort who just was waiting to get her ass plowed and slapped despite all the bruising from the fetish party the night before.

 

[Ferris]

I am trying that avenue but the simps have massively inflated the price of even the bare minimum attractive to women to sky high level.
Women are showered with compliments on pretty much all online sites.
And the men are just shamelessly posting dick pic after dick pic.
It's hard to compete.
I haven't given up though. I am working on an angle that might see some results.
But meanwhile I get to bang tied up women who are waaaay out of my league for an understandable price.

Or e-girls just advertising their OnlyFans and "premium Snapchat".